It’s all about Perspective.

Perspective: noun, a particular attitude towards or way of regarding something; a point of view.

the Oxford Dictionary

There are days when I wake up and my head is in a dark room thinking about things in the world that are not going well: climate change causing disastrous flooding, refugees stranded on freezing borders and the endless Pandemic. I get up and get going and my head comes out into the morning light . This happens even on the dreariest of days. Thursday this week I went down to Toronto, on the train, to get a routine check of my bone density done at the Toronto General Hospital. For some reason the subway was not working so I walked, from the train station, up to the hospital. Across the street there is a hospital I know well. My Sinai. It is the building on the left in this photo.

In the year 2000 I spent 10 days on the 14th floor recovering from a seven hour surgery for colorectal cancer. Now, 21 years later, I am still here and still very much alive. I was reworked and rewired and I have a permanent colostomy. I know there are people who blanch at this idea. I have had a couple of people tell me there was “no way” they would consent to having a colostomy and living with a bag. This is something I cannot understand. It is at most a minor inconvenience and it has not stopped me from doing anything I wanted to do.

“It’s a funny thing about life, once you begin to take note of the things you are grateful for, you begin to lose sight of the things that you lack.”

Germany Kent

So if you know someone who is facing colorectal cancer and is having difficulty accepting the “bag” outcome. Please tell them about me. Now when I walk past Mt. Sinai and look up to the 14th Floor I am filled with gratitude for my life. I walk on with a spring in my step and I give thanks. It is all a matter of perspective .

It is not what you look at that matters . It’s what you see.

Henry David Thoreau

Comments

34 responses to “It’s all about Perspective.”

  1. Alli Farkas Avatar

    I remember a blog post of yours in which you mischievously posed the question, did any of us know you were a bag lady? So of course I had to keep reading to get the whole story, which again, of course, was not what I expected. But I have never forgotten and I salute you for your common sense approach to an aspect of survival that others unfortunately may view as abhorrent.

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  2. Marsha Avatar

    Wow, Anne, I had no idea you’d been through all that. Your life today does not reflect any disabilities or handicaps as a result of the surgery. I’m so glad you chose life!. I had a mastectomy two years ago and, like you say, it’s a matter of perspective. Life is beautiful. 🙂

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Absolutely. I am glad you chose life too. Thanks for this comment.

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      1. Marsha Avatar

        I’m so glad we met. Keep being such an inspiration to us all. 🙂

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        1. anne leueen Avatar

          Thank you. I will. 😃

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  3. scrapydo2.wordpress.com Avatar

    You are a fighter. Perspective is very important when making desicions.

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Yes it is. Thanks for commenting.

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  4. Tanooki Avatar

    Such a wonderful post! And you stayed at the hospital just 10 days? That’s so quick!! I’m so glad you’re having your days fine and happy now🙌💕

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Those ten days seemed like an eternity at the time. But for such a big surgery it was not that long really. Thanks for your comment Tanooki.

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  5. Terri Webster Schrandt Avatar

    Oh, I love this, Anne! Yes, a gorgeous photo of you and Biasini. I didn’t know you had been through this and you were successful during this time because you are so positive and understand the value of life. 21 years later, and look at you, happy and vibrant!

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Terri. I just hope that my story can give some hope to people who have had a difficult diagnosis.

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      1. Terri Webster Schrandt Avatar

        I’m sure it will, Anne!

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  6. JD Avatar

    Brava, Anne! Thanks for sharing.

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you JD. 😀

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  7. The Backyard Horse Blog Avatar

    Yes, Yes and YES! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and perspective. And what a great photo to accompany the piece! Go Anne!

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you! I love that photo too.

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  8. nesfelicio Avatar

    Thank you for this very inspiring post, Anne. Thank you for sharing this perspective.

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      You are most welcome!

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  9. Emma Cownie Avatar

    People are silly aren’t they? Perhaps they haven’t really thought about it properly. Good for you, Leueen. I know what you mean about feeling overwhelmed with bad news!

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      The saddest thing is that one of those people who refused to have a “bag” died of the cancer! Such a shame. I think that watching news or listening to news on the radio can be too much sometimes. I have to take breaks from it. Thanks for your comment Emma.

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  10. whippetwisdom Avatar

    Such a wonderful shift in perspective Anne and what a blessing to be able to do what you love and be such an inspiration to us all 🤗💖🙏 xxx

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      It is such a blessing to still be here and enjoying my life. Thanks for leaving this comment Xenia.

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  11. Diana Avatar

    Truly inspirational! My hero for doing all that you do for yourself, your family and your beautiful Biasini! ❤️🐴❤️

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Diana. I am very fortunate to have survived and I hope my story can make others who may be grappling with a bad diagnosis to remain optimistic and not loose hope.

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  12. Suzette Benjamin Avatar

    Thank you for sharing your courageous testimony to life. It inspired me. God blessings you.

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Suzette!

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  13. Michele Lee Avatar

    Anne, you are a creative and inspiring woman of strength. 💪🏻 Thank you for sharing part of your story. 💐

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      I like to share this part of my life in the hope that it may encourage someone else who is in a similar situation and let them know there is hope. Thanks so much for your comment.

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  14. Gratitude Squared Avatar

    What a wonderful testimony to good health, even with necessary modifications. Your advocacy for Gratitude is exceptional. I am so happy to always read and like your posts.

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Gratitude is an important aspect of this post . I thought you might find it of interest.. Thanks for leaving this comment

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  15. Paula Light Avatar

    Wonderful post! ❤️

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    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Paula!

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