Failing Toward Success

I was standing in the Show Office at the Adequan Global Dressage Festival and the show secretary was looking for my Intermediare 1 Adult Amateur division test results. There was a glass jar with with sweets and wrapped chocolates. I picked out a chocolate and had just popped it into my mouth when the secretary  handed me my test sheet and …… a blue ribbon. FIRST PLACE!!  I nearly choked on the chocolate , coughing and spluttering.  “Are you ok?” the show secretary asked. “Yes,” I croaked. “I’m just so surprised to have placed first!”

C.S. Lewis once said “Failures are finger posts on the road to achievement. One fails forward toward success.”  This past weekend I rode the Inter 1 test on two days.  The first day’s test was a mix of good–not good–good–not good.  So on the second day I knew where I was going to have to make an extra effort and remain completely focused on the job at hand. There could be no meandering about. My “failures” of the previous day were my “finger posts”.This was the fourth time I have ridden this test in competition and Biasini and I are still a long way from having a smoothly successful ride. But we are improving. A score of 64.4% gave us first place in the Adult Amateur division.  There are some thanks that I must give for this success.

MY HORSE BIASINI

There is a video of my ride at the end of this post. You will notice the show is very busy. There was a Hunter Derby going on in the Derby field adjacent to the Dressage rings. The hunters were going back and forth on the passageway next to the ring Biasini and I rode in. There are also lots of horses going back and forth on the road behind the C end of the arena plus golf carts and it was a windy day.  When I first got Biasini he would have been very nervous about all this and may well have had a spook during the test. But now he is completely focused. He does get very strong in some moments but we both know about that and it is up to me to ride prepared for that.

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MY SUPPORT TEAM

My husband David is not a horse person but he comes to the shows willing to help where needed; changing water buckets, holding Biasini while I mount up, bringing a bag with  the ringside essentials ( water for me and sugar cubes for Biasini) to the warm up ring and he videos my ride. I could not do it without him.

My coach Lou Denizard is there for the warm up with the energy and push to get on with the exercises we need to work through before going in the ring. He is there at the end for the debriefing ; praise if it went well, encouragement and direction for the next time if it went poorly.  And…..something else….usually his assistant helps me with mucking out the stall and hand walking Biasini. She was not able to come to this show so Lou , my coach, came and did those jobs. How many coaches do you know who will come and muck out a  stall for a senior citizen student?  It is a life saver for me because as I am closing in on my 69th birthday I just don’t have the chutzpah to stay all day from morning to late afternoon at the show and do all those jobs.

My friend Nancy Kleiner. At horse shows you hear some pretty ridiculous stuff in the stabling area. Who else would I have to share some humorous chuckles with about all that if I did not have Nancy?  That is how to keep perspective and a sense of humor about the whole “showing” thing.

Finally my coach from home Belinda Trussell who took time out of her own busy schedule to come and watch me ride on the second day. Lou was warming up another student so could not see my test. At the final halt I could hear Belinda cheering so I knew the test had been ok. I was able to see her for the debrief afterwards.

Here is a video of our ride on the second day. There is still plenty of room for improvement . The shoulder in  on the center line is still a wibbly wobbly experience for us and there are some moments when Biasini thinks he knows the test better than me. But for the 4th time riding this test I am happy and I am looking forward to working on improving what needs to be improved.

 

*Featured photo by Kara Riley-King*

Comments

59 responses to “Failing Toward Success”

  1. HereIstudY Avatar

    You are absolutly right. Keep up with good work.

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thanks for commenting!

  2. I'm Just Horsing Around Avatar

    Wow! You are an amazing team! Very inspiring!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you so much! I appreciate your very supportive comment.

  3. Miss A Avatar

    Yeah congratulations! It’s not the end result that’s the goal, it’s the journey right but hey, it sure feels good to win. Love your support team . Must feel great to have such nice people around you and your husband of course.

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      The support team is an integral part of the success and also make the whole thing a lot more fun as well. Thanks for commenting!

  4. Avery Avatar

    I forgot to mention, which I know I have said to you before, I love your team and how you love and appreciate them. They are all so great.

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thanks Avery. A good support team makes all the difference.

  5. Avery Avatar

    Wonderful! GOod on the both of you! <3 It was a very fluid test and you can make it even better, I know! Love the smile on your face in the photo <3

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you! Yes there is tidying up to be done and also some things that can be improved upon but for the 4th time out at this level I am very happy!

      1. Avery Avatar

        Good you should be!

  6. eventerinprogress Avatar

    Congratulations, so well deserved!!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thanks so much!

  7. NorCal Zen Avatar

    Congratulations Anne! That was beautiful. I particularly liked the extended trot in the beginning, and the effortless walk/canter transitions. Beautifully done! Watching the harmony between you and Biasini, despite the wind and the commotion, makes me feel good inside. Great job!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you. You have made some very good observations in your comment and i am delighted to know you enjoyed watching the video. I appreciate your response very much.

      1. NorCal Zen Avatar

        Thank you for sharing your video. I really did enjoy it.

  8. dray0308 Avatar

    Reblogged this on Dream Big, Dream Often.

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      thank you Danny!

      1. dray0308 Avatar

        You are welcome!

  9. Jen Avatar

    Congratulations!!! First place is awesome!! And that music is so fun!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      thanks! the music is just a You Tube add on but I think it is fun and suits the ride.Thank you for commenting so enthusiastically I appreciate it.

  10. Subbashini Meenakshi Sundaram Avatar

    Congratulations to you and Biasini ma’am.

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you so much Subbashini!

  11. Austen Avatar

    Ah congrats!! And such beautiful and heartfelt thanks, too!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you and the thanks is well deserved by the support team!

  12. Alli Farkas Avatar

    How exhilarating to win in Florida with the big boys! Congrats…well on your way to Grand Prix!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Alli! And you’ve got it they are the “big boys”here. Devon Kane was the rider in the ring before me! The separate the results for Open and AA but it is steep competition. And as for the Grand Prix…..I shall continue to work toward it but that is a whole other level.

  13. raynotbradbury Avatar

    Wow 😮 congrats 🎊🎉 🍾

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Ray!

  14. Emma Cownie Avatar

    I am so pleased for you Anne, congratulations!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Emma.

  15. Gayle Jorgenson Avatar

    Congrats! 😀 I’m so happy for you and Biasini!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Gayle!

  16. Joan Avatar
    Joan

    Congratulations ! What a beautiful effortless ride!💖

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Joan. I’m glad it looked effortless. That is what we strive for in dressage although from the rider’s point of view it is a lot of mental and physical work. But fun nonetheless!

  17. Sascha Darlington Avatar

    Congratulations to you both!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you Sascha!

  18. Robyn Avatar

    Wonderful job!! First place, way to go!! Great job to you and Biasini!! You both looked really great in the video (and I loved the music 🙂 ) Congratulations!!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thanks so much Robyn! I chose the music as I thought it would be a bit of fun. I’m glad you enjoyed it. And thank you for taking the time to watch the video.

  19. Sandy Macfarlane Avatar
    Sandy Macfarlane

    Thank you so much for sharing!! I see what you mean about being busy; yet a great learning environment for you both. It’s grand when the pair of you can continue to work towards your dressage goals. I’ll turn 60 this summer and love being able to dedicate a good portion of time to my horse and dressage passion!!! Early retirement has been awesome:)))))
    Enjoy your horse-time – Sandy

  20. Katrin Avatar

    Congrats!!! Love surprises like that!

  21. dinosaursdonkeysandms Avatar

    Congratulations! You both look amazing in the video, and I love the jolly music over the top to go with it. 🙂 xxx

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you. I felt the arrangement of Scott Joplin style music would be good. I don’t want the whole thing to be too serious. I appreciate your taking the time to watch the video!

  22. Gymah Avatar

    Congratulations! You guys look great! Isn’t it wonderful when the hard work finally pays off?

  23. Judy Avatar

    Congratulations! Well done! Woohoo!!

  24. Cindy Avatar
    Cindy

    BIG congratulations!!! I enjoy reading your blog!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you!

  25. sandyjwhite Avatar

    Great job! Hugs to you and a pat on the nose for Biasini.

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thanks so much!

      1. sandyjwhite Avatar

        You are welcome!

  26. Robert Parker Avatar

    Congratulations and I like your “finger posts” philosophy – – Good for you!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you. It is a good philosophy I think.

  27. fearlessinjesuschrist Avatar

    I knew you and Biasini could do it! Congratulations! I love the music, too!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      thank you ! I thought the music would be something light and entertaining. I’m glad you liked it.

  28. shiarrael Avatar

    FIRST PLACE! WOOT! Congratulations, that’s amazing!

    Did Biasini get a bucket of carrots? 😛

    The video of your test was beautiful. I can see why you two scored so well, even if the first round didn’t go that smoothly. I’m only a complete dressage amateur of course, but to me there were moments when the two of you moved like Olympians 😮 <3

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you! you are too kind but I certainly appreciate your compliments. Biasini got carrots and treats as well!

  29. Tea and Tales1 Avatar

    OH Anne, Congratulations! You both look wonderful!

    1. anne leueen Avatar

      Thank you so much!

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